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Your Book – Did You Know You Are Writing a Book?

This morning, I ran across this joke by comedian Steven Wright:

“I’m writing a book. I have the page numbers done;
now I just have to fill in the rest.”

This is supposed to be a photography blog but you know, the thing I feel I need to share on here sometimes is about LIFE in general.  I mean, I love photography, but honestly I have found “photography” and “life” are so interconnected, I am not sure how to separate them. Ansel Adams once said “A great photograph is a full expression of what one feels about what is being photographed in the deepest sense, and is, thereby, a true expression of what one feels about life in its entirety.” So, you see, our perspective on life and the world around us totally shapes our photography.

Well now, I better get back to that Steven Wright quote that I shared…   I think, in a sense, we are ALL writing a book. It might just not be put down on paper. That book is the story of our lives, and we hopefully have many blank pages yet to fill in. As with any book, there usually is some grouping of pages that are interconnected by chapters, and that also is like life. We may find ourselves in different chapters in our life story, as time progresses.

So, how is it with you?  How is the story of your life progressing? Are you stuck on what to write for your next sentence? Are you ready to start a new chapter, or closing a previous chapter? Do you wish you could rip out some of the earlier pages?  (I think we all probably have a few pages we’d like to remove.)

Keep in mind that with each page you write, you can shift the story line in a different direction. As much as life sometimes gets into a “routine,” we have choices to make about what we do next. Even if we don’t make a choice, even that is a choice. So, I encourage you to do well in choosing how you write your life story.

The main character in your story is counting on YOU to write a great book. Be bold. Be strong. Be innovative. Be courageous. Be kind. Be loving. Be a friend. Be forgiving. Be willing to admit you’re wrong and start a chapter over again (you know you CAN do that… it’s your story).  But most of all, be you… Be true to who you are.  Be true to the values you hold most dear.

God willing, you have a bunch of blank pages ahead.  Now you just have to fill in the rest.  Make each page matter. A great book is not defined by the number of pages.  It’s what you write on each page that truly matters.

Kevin Gourley

P.S.  Remembering this IS a photography blog, I suppose I should emphasize this notion that photography is more than just a matter of f/stops and shutter speeds, and our life perspective is actually of central importance in our photographic creativity.  We emphasize this in my Explore YOUR Photographic Creativity Workshop coming up on October 20th. If you register by October 13th, you can SAVE $50. I sincerely encourage you to sign up for this class. I believe it can help all photographers.

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Get Out of Your Comfort Zone

Yes this is a photography blog, but what I am saying really applies to all aspects of your life.

We are creatures who mostly live in the “routine” of daily life.  We keep doing what we’ve been doing because, well, it just feels easier.

When we were little, we were in our growth phase, where we were always learning, always growing, and the result was MAJOR ACCOMPLISHMENTS.  We learned how to talk. We learned how to crawl, then walk. We learned about language, and science, and history, and so many other things. We learned how to drive. We kept growing and growing. Why? Because we were constantly being pushed OUT OF OUR COMFORT ZONES.

And then for some of us, we had kids, and that was another comfort zone leap. It was that moment where we said “OMG, NOW what do I do??  This baby didn’t come with a user manual!!”

As our lives progress, it sometimes feels easier to grow complacent. We’re tired. We can’t find enough hours in the day. We have responsibilities to so many people. We lose sight of what matters to us as we meet the expectations of society or our family or our employer. We get on a treadmill of life, and just keep putting one foot in front of the other, and there we go, just doing what we have been doing, just to get by, and find ourselves wandering around in our comfort zone.

With photography, and almost everything else in life, if you want to GROW beyond where you are now, embrace the concept that your growth will happen if you intentionally step out of your comfort zone, just like you were doing when you made all of those big accomplishments as a kid.

Growth requires intentionality.  Want to get better in your photography? Push yourself to learn the aspects of photography you don’t know, or don’t just keep photographing the same subjects in the same way.  Pursue activities that lead you to improvement, that challenge you, that lead you to growth.

You may have heard this quote before:

“The definition of insanity is doing something over and over again and expecting a different result.”

Well, on the Internet, this quote has been attributed to Einstein, Ben Franklin, and Mark Twain. So, I have NO idea who originally said it, but I must admit it IS kind of crazy to just keep doing the same thing over and over again, and expecting anything different as a result.

Of course, I could give a counter-point: with many pursuits in our life, we DO need to keep doing the same thing over and over again, to PRACTICE in order to get better at what we do.  I learned to play the clarinet in school.  I definitely had to keep practicing over and over again, to get better.  But regardless of how much practice I did, the end result is that I just became a better clarinet player.  To go beyond just being a good clarinet player, requires pushing beyond clarinet playing, on to the next goal.

I started this post by saying “Yes this is a photography blog, but what I am saying really applies to all aspects of your life.” and it really is important for us all to think about what we want out of life.

The most exciting moments in life are those moments where we dare to go beyond the boundaries of our comfort zone and achieve something new and great and different and say “WOW, I can’t believe I did that!”

Where are you now, and where do you want to go with your life? See your comfort zone as just a resting spot, but not your destiny. Don’t stay there too long.

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